On December 9th, mac reported a strange “gathering” which had been going on for a few nights in Halton Way. It seems that several people had noticed, including chumly who said that many of the visitors were parking on the verges of Woodvale and damaging the grass verges.
The following day, mac posted saying that he had found out what was going on, it was a very "sad but genuine reason" and asked for residents to "have some compassion".
Over the next few days many other posters joined the conversation, expressing their distress and annoyance at the damage done to the verges and speculating about the cost of repairs etc… until December 18th, when tog revealed that the reason for the gathering was the tragic death of a young child
This is obviously a horrible tragedy and it seemed to me (and to Baz_k) that some posters had shown little sympathy or consideration… even after the facts were revealed.
And so started a – somewhat heated – discussion which has attracted much attention and controversy and – it would seem – put a few noses out of joint.
On one hand, there’s no doubt that the verges are a terrible mess, and yet – in the circumstances, how can we blame the poor parents, or heap scorn and contempt on somebody who’s just been through such a horrible experience?
How can a little thing like grass even be worth a mention in the face of this terrible event?
…and yet we live here, we care about the place and many of us are distressed by the damage and annoyed at the seeming lack of consideration!
I actually received a(n anonymous) letter yesterday about the subject, from a local resident who (obviously) reads the blog but isn’t registered (you should register… it’s free you know) 
I won’t (can’t) divulge the contents of the letter but it offered an(other) interesting opinion on this subject…
Thank you (anon) for taking the trouble to write to me about it.
Suffice to say that tempers were flared and feelings hurt, (for which I am sorry) and – given the unusually emotive circumstances – I even offered to edit or remove any of the comments in the thread.
After my "rant" Big_dave chimed in (for the 1st time in this conversation), accusing me of "lecturing him"
and of censoring opinions which didn’t match mine! This is patently untrue (as a quick look through the site will reveal), so I gave him a strong rebuff.
BD didn’t like being told off (even by a much older man – lol) so he asked me to remove his comments in this thread, which I did (as offered), along with my reply.
He also asked me to remove all his previous comments – which I didn’t (he should have read my Terms & Conditions)!
Frankly I’m sorry to see him go, he’s (normally) a nice chap and is welcome back any time he wishes (email me for your new password if/when you calm down).
For the record, I don’t censor articles or comments unless I have to (for legal reasons). I simply correct spellings, replace swear-words and remove spam and off-topic rubbish. I’m perfectly happy to allow others to express their opinions (and will exercise my right to do the same).
But I will not allow anybody to make unsubstantiated accusations (against me or anyone else)!
Now the discussion has gone on for so long that I have finally decided to create this post and move all of the associated comments here… Feel free to add your opinion (whatever it may be)!
FYI: I dated this post Dec’ 9th (the date of the first comment), although it was actually created on Dec’ 24th.